What I Did When My Partner Broke Up With Me Because I Was Labeled ‘Overweight’.
The story I am about to share with you is that of a lady whose name will remain anonymous but whose deep pain has been felt by millions of ladies around the world.
Few weeks before the Christmas celebration in December, I came home as anticipated to spend a lovely time with my parents and siblings.
On one of those regular days, as I usually will poke at my younger sister and troubleshoot her -‘look for her trouble’. I was stopped dead in my tracks when she showed me the heartbreaking, soul-shattering but turnaround story on a post with videos of a mother of four in Texas, USA who was dumped by her Ex whom she had two kids with and labeled ‘too fat to date’.
Her former partner told her that ‘no one would want to end up with someone her size and that she was “lucky” that he stuck around for so long’ before leaving her to raise her two children alone.
This mother had struggled with self-confidence for years and according to her felt ugly ‘inside and outside because of her stretch marks and saggy skin’. Albeit, she was depressed for some weeks after the breakup but finally got over it. She shared online how she was able to shrink to size 14 in one year following a stringent diet.
I know this might not be the long emotional story you’ve wanted but hear me out. I don’t know her personally, I don’t know the whole picture of her relationships, and I can only share want I know.
My reason for writing this article is to draw your attention to what has hindered millions of young adults and old adults alike (maybe you who’s reading this), especially the ladies from either finding a suitable partner or staying in a healthy relationship.
This will pierce your soul but THE UGLY TRUTH is most people (Men in particular) do not like to date/court or marry OVERWEIGHT ladies. Many of them have confessed to only settle for them. Most women also are struggling with their size (especially the excessive waistline ). Most mothers have rather given up on this……..sadly
I sincerely don’t know any other way to say this. I am not against women neither am I deeply misogynistic. I have quite a number of female friends. Humorously, they are good cooks. They are kind and fun to be around.
This discovery dawned on me as I plunged into deeper research about male and female dynamics, dating and relationships, the psychology of attraction, etc. I have pored over 40 books, articles, and journals in trying to understand a lot about relationships because I’m an extremely curious and inquisitive being.
I recently stumbled across an article on Metro News about a lady, who created two identical online dating profiles of herself in size 18 and size 10 to find out. The results were staggering. Over the course of five days, the profile picture with size 18 received; 18 messages, 74 likes, and 81 visits. While the profile picture with size 10 received more than double the attention; 36 messages, 211 likes, and 210 visits.
These are few screenshots from the article.
You could verify this information yourself. I could go on and on about this. There are a lot on this [other written articles without solutions;]. You can do your own research to confirm.
I have come across FAT ladies who have confessed to only have been used for transitory pleasure (you know what I mean) and then dumped, sadly though. About five years ago, writer and dating industry expert Katy Horwood wrote an article on this on Huffpost, UK website……..
You should visit Model and Fat Activist Tess Holliday’s Posts on Instagram to have a look at what she said about this.
I wouldn’t want to utter such morally reprehensible statements.
“WHY IS NO ONE SOLVING RELATIONSHIP FAILURES OF OVERWEIGHT LADIES? This is what I really want to address. We are all aware of this challenge or at least I’ve brought your awareness to this. The mother of those four kids in the initial story I shared above spent over a year shrinking TO SIZE 14. Shouldn’t there be a better way to size reduction and especially excessive waistline in the body? Trust me on this guys, there is a better way. I have had to verify this information before posting. Men we are not left out on this.
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